Respond to the following scenario using the knowledge you have gained from reading Functional Area 10: Guidance.
Tara, a new teacher in your center, is having difficulty with two children in her class. They are always fighting, taking things from one another, and telling on each other. Tara has taken points from them on ClassDojo, put them on time-out on the playground, and excluded them from a class birthday party. The children have told their parents how Tara has disciplined them, and these parents have complained to the school director. Since you are a veteran teacher, the director has paired Tara with you and asked you to help her learn to manage her students and classroom. What words of wisdom do you have for Tara about how to handle hard-to-handle preschoolers?